Many people enjoy giving and receiving cunnilingus, but where do you turn when you want to learn more about oral sex or ways to introduce it into a relationship? The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus is a resource for people who are looking to expand their expertise or are simply curious. In her clea...
The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a complete guide for readers who want to use sexual fantasies to change old habits, learn new tricks, and put imagination back into their sex lives.With wit and enthusiasm, sex educator Violet Blue takes readers on a tour of the wide world of sexual fantasi...
Feeling adventurous? In this witty and well-informed consumer guide, best-selling author and sex educator Violet Blue shows couples how to choose and use sex toys to play and explore together — and have mind-blowing sex. She leads readers through the maze of sex toys on the market, explaining the...
Call me a workaholic, but starting a PR firm from the ground up has left my days jam-packed with serving the requirements of others. Demanding as they are, I have to be grateful that my list of clients is rapidly growing, and it’s looking like my business will actually turn a profit some day. Sti...
CHRISTIAN It started with the laundry—now how ironic is that? It obviously was a kind of blind spot for Al. Ask him to take out the garbage, drive five hundred miles to help out a friend, weed the backyard, vacuum, even cook (he made a mean-ass clam chowder he was partic...
Phone sex, a visit to a strip club, or an hour at a peep show can be a safe way to test the waters before actually engaging in sex with a stranger. You can learn a lot from the pros in addition to learning more about yourselves, your likes and dislikes, and uncovering further fantasies for you bo...
Anal penetration isn’t for everyone, so be sure to cover the topic with her before you start lavishing your affections on, and inserting your fingers in, her butt. So, how do you add anal penetration to oral sex and make it pleasurable? Follow the three golden rules: go very slowly, listen to the...
Second, you didn’t want to be uncool. And third, a cliché: you didn’t ever want to be a cliché, but always extraordinary, not commonplace in any way. So I seemed together and in control, interesting and cool, up in my tower above it all, and better than anything that happened to me. Confession: I...
You can take him in your mouth during foreplay, in between your favorite sex positions, or when switching erotic activities; swap oral favors in a 69; or save fellatio for your last course, dessert. It can be a teasing taste of what’s to come later, a clandestine moment, a tit-for-tat trade, or t...