The ‘family secret’ was withheld from the adopted child for as long as possible. Over recent years, studies have shown that explanations of the facts should be given to the adopted child at an early age. To understand the differences between natural and adoptive parents however, it has been found that a child should be at least six years old, a period in life when a child's adjustment to being adopted can really begin. This new approach has led to improved access via intermediary agencies to tracing biological roots. Not only has it afforded improved opportunities for the adopted person to research his or her background but it has also allowed adopted adults and their adult birth relatives to contact each other, if both parties agree. This yearning for family history can have unpredictable and surprising consequences… ***** “Suzie, you look bloody awful,” said Amanda, stubbing out her cigarette and opening the door to the staff entrance. “Been out on the lash, girl?” “I only went for a quiet drink with a few friends,”
