Basically, that’s just a polite way of saying they get off on looking at hot chicks. But there's more to it than that. They respond on a primal level to a woman who takes care of themselves because they’re self-centred and assume we’re making the effort to attract them. Being well-groomed is like an advertisement for availability. Not that married women don’t take care of themselves, but the belief is that many women become less diligent about their clothes, makeup and bodies after they settle down. Is this a stereotype? Yup. Is it superficial? You bet. But if you want to attract a man, you can’t expect him to be drawn to your beautiful soul if the packaging looks like crap. So, dump the sweat pants and hit the gym occasionally. Wear shoes that are comfortable, but also make your legs look fantastic. Don’t go crazy and wear evening gowns to the supermarket. You'll look like you're trying too hard and the smell of desperation is way more repulsive than the cheapest drug store perfume.
