Wrong. I’m going to talk about you—the straight wife. And I’m going to talk about a situation that may hurt some of you to think about, but we need to discuss it so that you will stop feeling worse about yourself and this situation than you already do. And this does NOT apply to many of our sisters in pain, but it does apply to enough of you to compel me to write about it. So for those of you whom it doesn’t apply to, just read along for the ride. The complexity of straight/gay marriages has enough twists and turns just by the nature of what they are—distortions of life. We spend years trying to unravel all of the threads of this situation, thinking to ourselves, “Where did we go wrong?” Sometimes thinking about where we went wrong stops us from thinking about something else that we have conveniently tucked away in our subconscious—namely, WE ALWAYS KNEW. Ouch. That one really hurts. Truth be known—some women suspected or knew something ahead of time. There is no shame in this—NONE WHATSOEVER.
What do You think about Bonnie Kaye's Straight Talk (2010)?
