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Devil in the Details: Scenes from an Obsessive Girlhood (2006)

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Devil In The Details: Scenes From An Obsessive Girlhood (2006) - Plot & Excerpts

Humor, I've been told, is something of a cure-all for emotional and mental traumas. Like a homemade tonic sold at a sideshow, people claim it can "cure whatever ails you," whether what ails you is male pattern baldness, an especially persistent boil, or something far more serious. It is true that making light of the depressing, the embarrassing, and the far too real to deal with can liberate a person from their problems. Cracking wise about your OCD, for example, can deflate it, and take its power over you away. Jennifer Traig talks about her particular flavor of OCD--scrupulosity, which is defined as "a psychological disorder characterized by pathological guilt about moral or religious issues"--like it was a dirty joke. Sure, it's funny, but you're going to feel kind of bad for laughing. Traig does this especially well. This is partially due to her skill as a writer, but the dumbfounding strangeness of her disorder contributes heavily to the effectiveness of her punchlines. Funny and awkward usually go hand in hand, and there's nothing quite as awkward as an anorexic, Orthodox Jew that compulsively rips her hair out because she can't decide if accepting a soda from a possibly contaminated cooler is more sinful than rudely refusing the drink. This sort of behavior makes most people uncomfortable. When most people feel uncomfortable, they laugh. Traig exploits this principle, creating a tense atmosphere for the reader to wallow in. And this is very, very funny. This strategy is a double edged sword, though. While cracking jokes about your problems can make them more accessible to your audience, resorting to these jokes every few pages can have the opposite effect. Traig's jokes begin to adopt a formula, and in the middle of the book, seem repetitive. However, the end recovers from this slight slack in the memoir. Traig balances out the humorous with the seriousness of her scrupulosity. Her jabs at her own mental problems never come off as truly light-hearted, and perhaps that is the powerful part of "Devil in the Details." Jennifer Traig seems to be laughing at herself as she paints a mocking self-portrait, but you can still hear her crying.

On one hand, I'm kind of fascinated by these things. Having some insight into the day to day life of someone with OCD was very interesting. I've heard and read about OCD in passing, but never knew what it could really be like. Jennifer prayed compulsively for hours every day, couldn't sit on certain pieces of furniture because it had been "contaminated" by other people, washed her hands about 100 times a day, had to wash and sanitize dishes and utensils multiple times, among many other things. She spent at least one summer terrified that she would stab her mother (this is another common symptom that I'd never heard of). I'm glad that Jennifer can look back at her childhood and laugh a bit because it must have been terrible to deal with these obsessions and compulsions at the time. I can't even imagine.On the other hand, Jennifer's OCD primarily manifests itself as scrupulosity, surfacing as religious and moral obsessions. I had no idea this existed until I picked up Jennifer's book, and I find this to be fascinating in itself. However, I have zero interest in religion. So reading about Jennifer's religious OCD in detail was a little hard for me to get through.I really enjoyed reading about Jennifer's family, how they dealt with her when OCD was taking over and how different they all are. I got the impression that they're a lot of fun and have great senses of humor. I also liked some of the other incidentals, like how she wanted to live in Paris and how she and her mom and sister love arts and crafts.I have to say, while I was reading I did feel kind of sad for her in a way. Jennifer grew up in the 70s and 80s, before OCD was really recognized and before the medication was easy to come by. How frustrating it must have been for her and her family, not knowing why she was the way she way and not being able to do anything about it.Anyway, I think this is a good read overall, especially if you're interested in the human psyche. It's well-written and made me chuckle a few times.

What do You think about Devil In The Details: Scenes From An Obsessive Girlhood (2006)?

Devil in the Details is subtitled “Scenes from an Obsessive Girlhood,” and rightly so. Traig suffered from scrupulosity, one of the Obsessive Compulsive Spectrum Disorders defined by a religious compulsion to do various things. She also has full-blown OCD, although in this book, it mainly manifests itself through her scrupulous behavior. Traig’s story is very interesting especially for those of us - like myself - who have OCD tendencies and/or spectrum disorders. I am always fascinated by tales of others’ mental interiors, and this is no exception.Traig treats her childhood with sensitivity, never falling into self-pity or hatred, and yet is brutally honest about the strange behaviors in which she participated. This book is humorous and well-written, and heartily recommended.
—Bethany

I’m not sure how I feel about this book, even still. I was intrigued when I first heard of it a few years ago, very interested to read a true life story about the struggles with OCD. And the fact that the author wrote with a clear view of her past and much humor made it all the more fascinating. If only the book had held up to that reputation.The writing is good, the story intriguing. But the author’s particular type of OCD is a religious compulsion and her heritage is Jewish, so the stories (and compulsions) are endless. Not to mention tedious. Had Traig chosen to tell her story without such depth of explication regarding Jewish ritual I would have enjoyed it much better. It’s one thing to inform a non-Jewish reader, but quite another to drone on ad nauseum. And entire chapters felt ad nauseum. The story would have been better served with less religious ritual detail and more social commentary, less education and more autobiography. What perplexes me still is that fact that I wasn’t truly enjoying the book but I couldn’t seem to set it aside. Somehow she made me care to know how things played out, even when I cared nothing about what she was telling me.Jennifer Traig is a good writer, and I would certainly read more of her work in the future. I did enjoy Devil in the Details. I was simply prepared to enjoy it more, and that never came. I can’t say I’ll recommend this book to anyone, but I’m happy to have one more title to pass along to an interested party.
—Jules Q

It's...okay. Once you get past how weird little Jenny was, praying six hours a day with a kleenex on her head and making imaginary cosmetics from her own spit, you kind of get over it. Basically, this is Jenny's "comic" memoir of how it was going through high school with Scrupulosity, a form of OCD that centers around religious obsession. This fun mental illness cocktail included everything from sterilizing things that were "impure" to overzealously separating everything (not just dairy and meat), and various old testament dietary restrictions that eventually led Jenny to occasional bouts with anorexia, which she called "flare-ups". To make things more complicated, Jenny has a cooler, better-dressed and less socially-retarded sister just one year younger than herself, straight from the pages of a Brett Easton Ellis novel (or more likely a movie made from a Brett Easton Ellis novel). Add to the mix a Jewish surgeon for a father and a Catholic mom in charge of making sure Jenny gets a proper Jewish education, all whose secular sensibilities make it difficult to understand Jenny's strange form of spirituality.Having read three well-known and decidedly not comical accounts of anorexia (Wasted by Marya Hornbacher) and mental illness (Prozac Nation by Elizabeth Wurtzel and Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kayson), Devil in the Details was obviously a more "fun" read, but not necessarily a lot more fun. Honestly, it's not that I didn't get Jennifer Traig's sense of humor, it just wasn't appealing to me. Oh, sure, I occasionally chuckled, but not enough chuckles to sustain me through 242 pages of repetition. Yes, who would have guessed an OCD writer would repeat things, or say, obsess about certain things? Just kidding. But honestly, this short memoir could have been a bit shorter, in my opinion. I probably didn't need to hear about the summer crafting frenzy she went through every summer more than once. And she probably didn't need to mention that her Mom was Catholic over and over and over again. In Traig's defense though, who can't appreciate a good Pentecostal joke from time to time?
—Mrs. McGregor

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