Dear Aunt Mary - My friend has all the best stuff and she’s so lucky! She’s got a great guy and a fab apartment and makes gobs of $ at her kewl job. Even tho I love her to bits, I’m starting to hate her too. :-( Should I dump her? Green-eyed Girl ---- Subject: argh! Dear Jealous Jane - Face it. Green’s not a good color on women. Put your envy monster on a diet and maybe then you’ll be able to shake him off your back. Meanwhile, take care of yourself. Hate your job? Find another. Hate your apartment? Move. You should be getting the drift of this now. It’s easier to blame someone else for your troubles than to solve them yourself. Get some good stuff in your own corner and you shouldn’t be so worried about keeping score. If you are, you’ve got bigger problems than I can solve. Aunt Mary *** Uncertain? Confused? Ask Aunt Mary! Your one stop shop for netiquette and advice: http://www.ask-aunt-mary.com ---- Johnny squirmed from his chair and went to James.