- What Women Want Men to Know About Taking Control in the Bedroom (A Guide for Couples) - Revised Edition PART THREE: TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS FOR COUPLES COMING TOGETHER…TO MAKE THINGS HAPPEN Now we’re ready to talk about the good stuff! But, before we get rolling here, I would like to reiterate some important points we went over in the advice for women and the advice for men sections of this book. It’s really important to understand the basics, and this also will serve as a primer for you bad boys and girls who skipped ahead! A woman wanting her man to be more assertive or dominant in the bedroom is not a reflection on the relationship at all. While experimenting with alpha male tactics during sex might put a spark into your relationship, all in all this is simply about what goes on between the sheets. If either of you have read this book and your thoughts keep drifting back to instances in your day-to-day relationship where this advice would come in handy, then stop here and work on your relationship.
