Models: Attract Women Through Honesty (2011) - Plot & Excerpts
This book was really solid until he got to the actual how-to advice at the end, and then it seemed kind of manipulative and gross, not to mention rapey.It is NOT a good policy to push ahead with women you hardly know until they force you to stop. DO NOT DO THIS.Always ask and anything less than an enthusiastic yes is a no.The first 180 pages or so of this book is excellent advice. Much better than the advice in The Game or No More Mr. Nice Guy or any other book I've read, and I want to tell everyone to read it but I'm kind of dumbfounded by the direction it took at the end. I can't even write a proper review because...wtf.I feel like there's a glaringly inconsistent attitude toward women. Like he's presenting himself as someone who thinks we're smart and interesting, and that dudes need to be honest with us, and that forming an emotional connection is rewarding and awesome, and then he's also like...yeah, they're kinda dumb and don't know what they want so just look hot, and change your body language, and stick it to them.Sometimes sexual aggression is hot, sometimes it's incredibly terrifying. There are a lot of factors at work, and you can only know if it's okay if you ASK. If that is what a woman wants...you should trust her to tell you, otherwise you are treading on dangerous ground. This book is a must read for all guys into the game.It changed me profoundly, it shaken me from ground up!The ideas are so simple, that now i see that all of these seduction industry scam - was there for marketing, selling products. Because there is not much to learn once you have the fundamentals! The most important ideas explained:false/true confidence - invested in other people opinion of you or not?flirtingintention when approachingdemographicsVULNERABILITYpolarizingseduction success - lay countMark also unclogs and unveils all these stupid myths the community puts on you - HB10, laycount etc. PUAs "create impression" , they may hide intentions, honest guys express and be themselves.BOTH GET LAID! but PUA seduction is a short term solution. It is very often based on false confidence.LOOKS, social status, lifestyle make MORE WOMEN INTERESTED in you right away - and this is such simple truth.What if a girl is already attracted to you and you KEEP gaming her? She will sense you are playing game, hiding, manipulating->unconfident->unattractive. It happened to me!True confidence speaks from identity, expresses himself and does not care if people like it or not. On other side, woman with true confidence will sense pua manipulation and think the guy is unconfident. True confidence meets true confidence in the end! The more real social status, lifestyle you have - the less game you need3 types of women are - receptive, neutral , unreceptiveUSE GAME only to convert neutral to receptive. Don't waste time on unreceptive from start - qualify from beginning.The book says get rejected faster than later.You will object - "i can attract any woman i need with game" - yes, but do you really want to have more time convincing, showing value some annoying cunt? BECAUSE YOU WOULD NOT HAVE GREAT LASTING TIME with girls with different values - convincing her will take much time and the process will not be enjoyable.Or rather find girls who are receptive from start? What i did not realize is that the whole point of seduction and girls is emotional fullfilment!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1All these laycount are for bragging among MEN! Fucking many girls will not really bring much happiness. Opening up and being vulnerable will inevitably make girls feel attracted or negative to you - and it is good, because you express yourself and honest to the world!The books i read previously on game,pua were mostly about "xxx METHOD", 'get the girl', "xxx style of pickup".This book just put everything in place, i m grateful for it - it just cleared out the path! I found no contradictions between his statements, it explains all typical mistakes easily, every wrong belief i found in my - it clicked in the right place in my mind.I m grateful to Mark for this honest bookp.s. the only thing that is a bit misleading is the title - i think it must be titled "honest truth about women and men" or"what women want" i m pretty sure, many other good books on relationship and women explain same thing as in this book but with different words and with same basic idea - HONESTY.
What do You think about Models: Attract Women Through Honesty (2011)?
A lot of wisdom in a book you'd expect to be shallow. Influential read
—LissaRose
One of the few books that shifts an entire mindset tbh
—conoy
