They learn how to connect, whether or not they are safe, and how they belong to a group. Children who feel judged, punished, or belittled for who they are in their family group often grow up as wounded or repressed adults. My work for decades has focused on helping adults heal their lives, and I have seen family wounds affect adults many years down the road. When a parent does not understand their child’s nature, they increase the likelihood that they will accidentally wound their child. Each of the 4 Types receives certain wounding messages from their parents and family that often lead to a few dominant dysfunctions. Look honestly at your family situation and see if you are sending one of these negative messages to your child that may contribute to a future struggle in their adult life. You may also recognize messages that wounded you as a child, which can illuminate dysfunctions in your own life so you can clear them. Type 1 Wounds The wounding messages Type 1s receive from their family: You’re too silly.
