The Mirror Effect: How Celebrity Narcissism Is Seducing America (2009) - Plot & Excerpts
A few chapters in I began feeling cognitive dissonance when talk of narcissism was the focal point as I began to realize how prevalent it is in our society and, most painful of all, within myself. I may not fall on the more destructive, unhealthy side if the spectrum as I am self aware and very empathetic towards those around me, however this book was an eye opening experience.It's simple, easily digested, and paradigm shifting. I felt uneasy and much better for it, like a good medication that initially has some mild side effects. This is the first book I've read that delves into seriously studying celebrities and how their behavior impacts the rest of us. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this book and learned that I had the definition of narcissism wrong. Looking at it the way Dr. Drew does, as envy, changes the perspective I have on celebrity behavior and on those who mirror their behavior or openly attack their behavior. This book deals particularly with millennials and how the diva-like personalities of many celebrities have become normal for non-celebrities. The main point of the book is to get people to stop the cycle of narcissism before it gets out of control.Dr. Drew's take on the problems with current celebrity behavior is one of empathy, which he constantly refers back to throughout the book. There is a particularly interesting passage where Dr. Drew comments on how the public bashing of celebrities relates back to the primitive concept of human sacrifice. I've come across a lot of anti-empathic sentiments from younger millennials and teens on comments sections so I would have to agree with his plea for creating a more empathetic environment for today's youth.While this book is geared towards the parents of teens, it is a useful tool for anyone working with children and teens. Millennials would especially benefit from reading this book. It will remind you to be more emotionally conscious of others and to not be too swift to judge the people on the other side of the mirror.
What do You think about The Mirror Effect: How Celebrity Narcissism Is Seducing America (2009)?
I found the topics in this book to be very interesting, but it felt repetitive at times.
—Supermimez
It was good, I love Dr Drew anyway, some parts felt a bit forced.
—chewie
Disturbingly accurate descriptions of The Entirled Generation!!!
—carolebroughton