The secretto becoming a rave-inspiring “master chef ” in the bedroom is knowing when (and how) to throw in a dash of this or a pinch of that, turn up the heat, let things simmer a bit, or even mix up the ingredients. It’s also im- portant to know why the right blend makes things so sweet. This book gives you all of the tools you need to make sure that you and your lover are sexually satisfied. It also incorporates information from tantra, yoga, acu- pressure, and reflexology. Think of these as “secret ingredients” that will help you create your orgasmic masterpiece.In addition to being a sex educator, I consider myself a lifelong learner. In this book I offer not only facts I’ve learned while training to be a sexologist, but also lessons I’ve picked up in my journey to becoming more sexually enlightened myself. In the middle of my doctoral training at NYU, after having answered countless questions through my sex col- umn in the student newspaper and on various sexuality websites, I found myself hungering for something more—for better, richer answers.
