As a young adult, Sara feels distant from her family. By the end of the book, she is experiencing great intimacy with her mother. Have you experienced transformation in a relationship that you thought would never change?2. Early in the book, Sara references a talk she heard about covenants and their possible power to carry the people that make them through to fulfillment. What do you think of this idea? Is there somewhere in your life where making a covenant to something could give you fortitude?3. Chapter 6 deals with grief and trauma. What kind of modeling do you think our society gives for dealing with these kinds of experiences—both as the one experiencing and as the one witnessing a traumatic experience?4. Many women share that they’ve had a miscarriage or perinatal loss. Do you think it’s better for individuals, or society at large, to keep such experiences private?5. After she loses her twins, Sara shares that she believes healing requires both time and inner healing. Do you agree?
