In My Father's Country: An Afghan Woman Defies Her Fate (2012) - Plot & Excerpts
I wouldn't say this was one of the most well-written books I've ever read, but I loved the story. Wahab has had such a remarkable life, and such incredible experiences, and I'm so glad she was able to share those through the publication of this book. Her memoir is also a great resource for someone looking to better understand Afghan culture without having to resort to academic writings (many of which are too confusing to be helpful, anyway). This book, in addition to being a really wonderful, touching story, also gives the reader a better understanding of Pashtun culture and the nuances that complicate the conflict in Afghanistan. This was an interesting view of the war in Afghanistan from the viewpoint of a native who has become an American citizen. The details of her job as translator and later as cultural educator were interesting, as were the observations of cultural mistakes the U.S. military made that later came back to haunt them. It is easier to understand the headlines today with the background and insight from this book. That said, I have to say I did not like Ms. Wahab very much. She was determined not to be controlled by men so much that she defeated any relationship she may have had. I admire her courage in her work, but she has some definite psychological issues that need to be addressed. She wanted so much to be back in her native country but couldn't belong there because of her hatred of the male-dominated society. She liked being an American, but couldn't belong here because she missed her native country. As for the writing, Ms. Wahab did a decent job of expressing herself in this book. It is not great writing, but it is honest writing. I would recommend this book to anyone trying to understand the cultural issues in Afghanistan.
What do You think about In My Father's Country: An Afghan Woman Defies Her Fate (2012)?
Great book. Not the best writing but really good story. Makes you think.
—mazzy
I like these books regarding cultural issues and cultural shock
—Tyler
Very interesting, informative and educational.
—mmiimi
