Boy Meets Girl - Say Hello To Courtship - Plot & Excerpts
Step back and let him be the one to take charge. How else will he learn to lead? How else can you practice for the time when you will follow a husband?Sylvia, who is in her thirties, gave me one example of how women can let men lead. "We ladies can be too quick to fill the silence in a conversation," she said. "We're like 'Oh no, he's not talking! I need to say something.' But I think it's important for us to let there be awkward moments of silence so the men can step up and lead the conversation."Want some more examples? Don't plan your times together. Don't be too quick to be the one who "clarifies" the relationship -"What is our status?" If at all possible, make him do it.And, finally, be patient. Most of us men are pretty new at this. We usually aren't as skilled as you are at expressing our feelings. For a lot of us, courtship is the first time we've been expected to lead, communicate, and interact on an emotional level with a woman. Give us time. I'm grateful that in my courtship with Shannon, she gave me time to grow in my leadership skills.
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