- The Sex Your Woman is Secretly Craving (and How to Give it to Her) - A Guide for Men, Women, and Couples Chapter 17 - The Back and Forth I bet you are ready and raring to go after that last chapter! Before you jump right into it, I’d like to reiterate some points I have already made. But more importantly, I want to tell you how reading each other’s cues can bring whole new levels of intensity to your alpha male lovemaking. Moans & Groans Verbal communication does not have to be either a clinical discussion of the proceedings or raunchy talk that would make your mother blush. When the two of you are in the zone – meaning, when you are experiencing a total connection with each other during your lovemaking – even the slightest comment can send you both over the edge and into ecstasy. When it comes to alpha male sex, this usually means an acknowledgement of the roles that each of you is going to play. For example, let’s say you’re having some seriously rough sex.