WITH WHO? TO DO WHAT? You What about you? Do you have interests beyond daily duties and pressures? How do you want your life to look like in 2 years? 5 years? Do you know what you’re looking for in a relationship? A friend? A husband/wife? Another person won’t respect you if your goals aren’t established. NO GOALS, NO BOUNDARIES - NO BOUNDARIES, NO RESPECT - NO RESPECT, NO FUTURE. It’s a terrible thing not to have personal plans for yourself. Personal dreams, educational goals or career plans should be considered as you make personal decisions. Everyday hustle and bustle doesn’t readily allow time to plan and create for the future. You have to make the time. In relationships, living without a purpose, makes it easy for another person to come along and drag you into their plan. Consequently, you may find yourself giving all, (body, mind, and soul) and received nothing. Your personal goals and dreams can go unfulfilled year after year while clinging to someone else’s.