Own Up! The first and most crucial step is to take full responsibility for your infidelity. Granted, the misbehavior was probably brought on by some feelings of dissatisfaction on your part. Perhaps you felt unappreciated and/or neglected. Maybe he let the romance slip away over the years. He might have stopped initiating love making. The male testosterone level gradually decreases after age thirty. This can result in a decrease of sex drive and an increase in fatigue, causing a strain in the relationship. He may have become bitter towards you because as time went by, he feels his opportunities and “pie in the sky” dreams have slipped away. Some guys tend to displace their animosity, even when they are really mad at themselves. Nevertheless, if you sought comfort in the arms of another man, you need to take ownership of that mistake. If you fail to do so, all the efforts you make to fix the relationship will seem somewhat insincere to him. Something is broken in your relationship. The sooner you find out what lead you to step out, the better.
